14 months of chatting
From 18 March 2025 to 3 May 2026
Almost. We missed a few — but not many.
Ending 18 November 2025. Almost half a year of not-a-single-day-missed.
…and then real life happened. Wedding planning, family, late-night phone calls instead of typing — the chat got quiet because we got loud in person.
That's one message every 58 seconds — for twenty-four hours straight.
What were we even talking about?
A side-by-side, fair and square.
Ilias is the chatterbox — 57% of all messages.
N. is the more enthusiastic typer — used 18× more "!"
Ilias drops a love-word every 22 messages; N., every 48.
N. opens the door more — 134 conversations vs 101. Ilias replies fastest — 21s median.
Fingers crossed, in every sense.
Tap to flip — same hearts, different rhythms.
The words we wore out.
times. that's roughly 3.6 a day.
A clock and a calendar of our rhythm.
Peak hour: 22:00 — 19,050 messages. Pillow talk, in writing.
Slow mornings, slow afternoons, lots of messages.
A handful of small wonders.
…and then,
on
154,559 messages was just the warm-up.